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“Fair warning: It might just be the most emotional scene ever,” said “Bachelor” host Chris Harrison to a live audience. And so began 60 minutes of the most brutal and compelling television”The Bachelor”franchise has ever brought to the masses.

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We might hate ourselves for not having the strength or desire to look away from that brutal breakup scene. We might tweet angrily at ABC for putting Becca in such a cruel position in the first place. We might call it emotional torture porn. We might feel ill. But we still watch.

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The same is true of emotional torment. Arie wasn’t the first lead to flip flop after the finale, ditching his chosen bride for the runner up that honor goes to Jason Mesnick, Bachelor No. 13. (Mesnick ditched his first choice, Melissa Rycroft, and married the runner up, Molly Malaney. The couple have a family together.) The Mesnick switch up was luridly exploited for ratings as well;Jason sat Melissa down in a studio with Chris Harrison to explain that he wanted to pursue Molly instead. But the pomp and circumstance of monlcer down jackets this meeting would have tipped off even a clueless Melissa and, in fact, Jason later stated that the couple had separated before their interview taped, though she did not yet know of his feelings for Molly.

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Where, then, is the limit? The limit is what the market will bear. “The Bachelor” will stop exploiting its contestants’ heartbreak for ratings when the ratings disappear. Based on the reaction to this week’s finale, we’re nowhere close to hitting that limit.

That’s the true love story being enacted annually on “The Bachelor”: the one between real life and TV artifice. There’s an undeniable pull between them, one that’s electrifying and yet disturbing to watch. The more entwined they become, the more they’re both weakened.

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